You have some options here.
1) The most obvious answer is divorce. You are obviously married to a man who is not cognizant of a woman’s most basic needs.
2) But if you just love him too much or yada yada yada, you can take your obsessions underground, start a double life. Say you’re going to a book club meeting, but go to a Panera instead, order some broccoli cheese soup, and spend the next 5 or 6 hours abusing their free internet to look at ASkars pictures.
3) The most healthy option, however, is getting him involved. ASkars is a treasure to be shared by the masses, including all genders and sexual identifications. Your husband just needs a little push and soon enough, he’ll be right there with you. This can be achieved with either therapy, or a Generation Kill marathon. The latter might be a bit cheaper.
i hope this helps.